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  1. 1 Peter 5:1-14 — Responsibilities in Suffering: 1 Peter-Part 3

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    1 Peter 4:12-19

    12 Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice insofar as you share Christ’s sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed. 14 If you are insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory[b] and of God rests upon you. 15 But let none of you suffer as a murderer or a thief or an evildoer or as a meddler. 16 Yet if anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed, but let him glorify God in that name. 17 For it is time for judgment to begin at the household of God; and if it begins with us, what will be the outcome for those who do not obey the gospel of God? 18 And

    “If the righteous is scarcely saved,
    what will become of the ungodly and the sinner?”[
    c]

    19 Therefore let those who suffer according to God’s will entrust their souls to a faithful Creator while doing good.

    1 Peter 5:1-14

    5 So I exhort the elders among you, as a fellow elder and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, as well as a partaker in the glory that is going to be revealed: 2 shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight,[a] not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you;[b] not for shameful gain, but eagerly; 3 not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock. 4 And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory. 5 Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

    6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, 7 casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. 8 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 9 Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. 10 And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. 11 To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen.

    Final Greetings

    12 By Silvanus, a faithful brother as I regard him, I have written briefly to you, exhorting and declaring that this is the true grace of God. Stand firm in it. 13 She who is at Babylon, who is likewise chosen, sends you greetings, and so does Mark, my son. 14 Greet one another with the kiss of love.

    Peace to all of you who are in Christ.

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    The big idea

    Peter tells suffering Christians not to be surprised by fiery trials. If we anticipate them now, we can keep doing what we were trained to do when they hit: rejoice to share in Christ’s sufferings, entrust ourselves to a faithful Creator, live under the leaders he gives, humble ourselves, cast our anxieties on him and resist the devil. We do sheep stuff; the Chief Shepherd does Chief Shepherd stuff.

    Key takeaways

    • You are not surprised by what you anticipate. Count the cost now, so that when a fiery trial comes you are not consumed by it.
    • Suffering does not mean God is against you and needs appeasing. He is a good shepherd who is for you, even when he lets trials come.
    • Church is not a sermon download to a floating head plus music. We are living stones and a body, and Christ gives the church leaders on purpose.
    • Peter, of all people, calls himself a “fellow elder.” Elders shepherd God’s flock willingly, eagerly and by example, not domineering, under the Chief Shepherd.
    • Humility is not self-hatred, which can be self-obsession. It is caring about what Christ cares about and serving without being noticed.
    • The devil sometimes comes as a roaring lion, not a trickster. Even the lowliest Christian, in Christ, can resist him.
    • After you have suffered a little while, God himself will restore, confirm, strengthen and establish you. Building the church is his job.

    ▶ 0:58:23

    The room was fuller than usual, and Matt was glad: “I’ll know when my jokes are bad, which is usual.” It was the third and last week in 1 Peter, a letter short enough to read aloud in one sitting, which he recommended.

    ▶ 1:00:03

    The first week was about hope in Christ rather than in improving circumstances; the second, about our purpose in suffering. This week: our responsibilities as a body in and through suffering – whether that means harassment, being left out, or a little slander – and a lesson for the future.

    1. Do not be surprised

    ▶ 1:01:13

    “Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you share Christ’s sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed.”

    1 Peter 4:12–13

    ▶ 1:01:53

    How are you not surprised by something? By anticipating it. Then, admitting he has never taken a preaching class “and I know it shows,” he told a rare personal story.

    ▶ 1:02:24

    For a year and a half he had been training at a Krav Maga self-defense gym, and he finally tried their Sunday “fight church” – three-minute kickboxing rounds with whoever you like. “This is not a glory story.” His first fifteen rounds were awful. Despite all the training, as soon as he got hit in the face, all he could think was, they’re hitting me in the face. The last time went better – “which just means I was evenly matched sometimes” – and the difference was not more training. Before each round he told himself: I’m going to get hit in the face, and I’m okay with that. Just don’t back up. Cover up too much and you cannot see what they are doing.

    ▶ 1:05:16

    A fiery trial will feel like being hit hard in the face, and that may be all you can focus on. “It’s not that you weren’t trained. It’s just that instead of focusing on what you were trained to do, all you’re thinking about is this awful thing happening to you – which, by the way, is normal.” So come to peace with it now, as part of counting the cost.

    ▶ 1:06:18

    And what have Christians been trained to do? Go to the Lord with our problems, cast our anxiety on him, glory in his presence, proclaim his excellencies, entrust ourselves to him as a faithful Creator. The instinct under harassment is to cope – skip church, play it cool, get rid of the difficult person. Instead, follow Christ, rejoicing that there is a bigger story than your life.

    ▶ 1:07:18

    When it hurts, our scope narrows: what did I do to offend the Lord? “It’s sort of a real natural pagan idolatry thing. I forgot to feed the gods this week, so God’s mad at me.” Flip that around. “God is for you. He’s a good shepherd. He will let trial come, but instead of being against you… that’s not Christianity. He’s for you all the time.”

    2. Suffering as a Christian

    ▶ 1:07:50

    “If you are insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you. But let none of you suffer as a murderer or a thief or an evildoer or as a meddler” (1 Peter 4:14–16). As Evan had said in the announcements, things were getting testy out there. Being viciously partisan and rude and then suffering for it is not what Peter means. He means being cursed, slandered or harmed for association with Jesus, or for refusing to join others’ flood of debauchery.

    ▶ 1:09:02

    “It is time for judgment to begin at the household of God” (1 Peter 4:17–19). “Judgment is something God does, not the devil.” Again and again Peter points out that suffering is permitted by the God who is always for you. God disciplines us as a Father; if he never did, he would be treating us as illegitimate children (Hebrews 12:4–12). So “let those who suffer according to God’s will entrust their souls to a faithful Creator while doing good” – a faithful Creator, “not a capricious god you have to buy off.” Our works will be tested by fire (1 Corinthians 3:13–15); the Lord’s enemies vanish like smoke (Psalm 37:20). “You’ll never be in eternity looking back, embarrassed that you gloried in God when it was hard.”

    3. Not a floating head

    ▶ 1:12:04

    That is a segue to leadership, which is important when times are easy and paramount when they are hard: elders exercising authority in the flock to nourish, protect and comfort. The coronavirus separation had everyone asking what it means to do church. Matt teased a caricature mercilessly: Christianity as “a download to your floating head, and then music for God’s enjoyment” – stream your favorite preacher, play your favorite worship band, “oh, that’s church, I did it.”

    ▶ 1:13:18

    But we are living stones being built into a temple, not stones hurled into a field and preached at from a distance. We are a body with different parts, and a body does not have “a floating appendage out here unattached… Hello, my name is Matthew, would you please greet my floating orb?” (1 Corinthians 12). And Christ gives the church apostles, prophets, pastors, teachers, overseers. “Why would Christ give stuff he doesn’t think we need, like a weird white elephant party? Here’s an overseer. What do I do with that?” – “I did only have one cup of coffee, but it was strong.”

    4. Fellow elders under the Chief Shepherd

    ▶ 1:14:23

    “So I exhort the elders among you, as a fellow elder and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, as well as a partaker in the glory that is going to be revealed: shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you; not for shameful gain, but eagerly; not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock. And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.”

    1 Peter 5:1–4

    ▶ 1:15:06

    This is Peter – the preeminent disciple, always named first – calling himself a fellow elder, because the flock belongs to God and every elder answers to the Chief Shepherd. “Don’t think for a second that if we don’t have enough smart pastors or charismatic evangelists, the whole body of Christ operation is going to fall apart in the next ten years. The body of Christ has always existed in spite of our best efforts.” Jesus said he would build his church.

    ▶ 1:16:57

    Why tell elders not to domineer unless they had real authority? Peter, likely knowing he would suffer greatly, did not go around saying “I’m Peter, I’m kind of a big deal.” He set an example and did what he called others to do. Willingly, and not for money, “otherwise you’re just a hired hand.” Matt recalled Jesus reinstating Peter on the beach: “Do you love me? Feed my sheep” (John 21:15–17). The focus was on Christ. For a culture shock, he recommended Gregory the Great’s Pastoral Rule – “wow, that’s different than American Christianity.”

    ▶ 1:19:43

    None of this makes sense, he added, if you divorce it from God’s kingdom and real presence. If this life is all there is, self-preservation is the rational response to suffering. Peter’s call to serve, suffer and hope makes sense only because of the glory of Christ.

    5. Clothed with humility

    ▶ 1:20:54

    “Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’ Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.”

    1 Peter 5:5–7

    ▶ 1:21:38

    Being subject to elders hurts the ego. “You got to reckon with that. That’s Scripture.” Matt suspected that the American church’s boiling down of Christianity to sermons and songs is partly a way to avoid being accountable to anybody. “You could say, well, I’m subject to Jesus. Okay, but he gave you leaders.” Clothing yourself with humility is easy alone in a field. “Walking in humility with actual live human beings around you – it’s a complete game changer.”

    ▶ 1:23:48

    And notice the contrast: the very God we bring our petitions to opposes the proud. “Which side of that do you want to be on?” Humility is not self-hatred, which “could also be a manifestation of self-obsession.” It looks like caring about what Christ cares about, caring for others because he does, serving even if you are never recognized or get teased for it.

    ▶ 1:25:07

    There will be a great reversal – the last first and the first last (Matthew 20:16) – and the big-shot preachers may get a polite nod while God tells the whole story of some “Aunt Sue” who served in glorious anonymity. “And Aunt Sue’s like, no, stop, I didn’t do it for the recognition. And God’s like, let me silence you. I’m going to keep telling the story.” It will be like the end of a movie, “but more epic” – a wedding feast.

    6. The roaring lion

    ▶ 1:26:41

    “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world.”

    1 Peter 5:8–9

    ▶ 1:27:31

    Back to the punch in the face: instead of being consumed by the pain, remember your training. The devil is sometimes described as an angel of light, making the wrong thing look right. Here there is no disguise – just a lion roaring in your face to terrify you. Even then, stand firm. Not “I can take him”: “the lowliest of Christians, in God’s grace, under the protection of Christ, can resist the devil.” And you are not alone: believers worldwide are suffering the same things, and Christ is with you.

    ▶ 1:29:40

    Why does God let Satan roam? Jesus told the church in Smyrna, “Do not be afraid of what you are about to suffer… the devil will put some of you in prison to test you… Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you life as your victor’s crown” (Revelation 2:10). “The devil is God’s devil, after all.” In Job, Satan needs “a hall pass” (Job 1:12). Peter says it again and again: if necessary you suffer; to this you were called; better to suffer for doing good, if God wills; suffering according to God’s will. Much of it forms Christ in us – “which must be really aggravating to the devil, to assist in a sanctifying process for many believers.”

    7. The Chief Shepherd does Chief Shepherd stuff

    ▶ 1:32:21

    “And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen.”

    1 Peter 5:10–11

    ▶ 1:33:02

    A little while, “even if it’s eighty years long.” The grass withers, but the word of our God stands forever (Isaiah 40:8). And he himself restores and establishes us – not because we proved we were good enough, “we ate the fruit of the Spirit, we avoided the vegetables of unholiness.” “He’s not getting tired of his job – ah, I’m sick of these sheep everywhere. We’re getting jaded. He’s not.”

    ▶ 1:34:09

    “So that’s one worry you don’t have to carry to your grave: can I strengthen the church enough? It’s not even your job, dude. At best you’re a fellow elder, serving at his pleasure.” Your part is your calling in the suffering: proclaim his excellencies, cast your anxieties on him, rejoice to share his sufferings, entrust yourself to a faithful Creator, wait for his return. “You do sheep stuff. He does Chief Shepherd stuff.”

    ▶ 1:35:21

    Matt read the closing greetings – “greet one another with the kiss of love,” lately air hugs and high fives – and Peter’s own summary: “this is the true grace of God. Stand firm in it” (1 Peter 5:12–14). So, as a sheep: do not be surprised; rejoice to bear the name Christian; entrust yourself to the faithful Creator; clothe yourself with humility; cast your anxieties on him; resist the devil and the passions that war against your soul; and stand firm in the grace of God. He prayed for the worldwide church, entrusted to God the task of building it, and asked for grace to obey.

  2. 1 Peter 2:18-20 — Enduring Suffering for Doing What is Good, Associating with Christ

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    1 Peter 2:18-20

    18 Servants, be subject to your masters with all respect, not only to the good and gentle but also to the unjust. 19 For this is a gracious thing, when, mindful of God, one endures sorrows while suffering unjustly. 20 For what credit is it if, when you sin and are beaten for it, you endure? But if when you do good and suffer for it you endure, this is a gracious thing in the sight of God.

    1 Peter 3:13-17

    13 Now who is there to harm you if you are zealous for what is good? 14 But even if you should suffer for righteousness’ sake, you will be blessed. Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, 15 but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, 16 having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame. 17 For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God’s will, than for doing evil.


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    The big idea

    Perspective helps even when the situation does not change, and the biggest perspective of all is this: God is God, and you are not. Because we belong to him, we are exiles here, free to honor everyone, to bless when cursed, and to suffer for doing good the way Jesus did – not as a pattern we copy, but walking with him as sheep with their shepherd.

    Key takeaways

    • God does not need our help the way ancient gods needed feeding. Treating outreach as if everything depends on us is the same idolatry dressed up differently.
    • Our identity is that God chose us and gave us mercy. That matters more than every battle line our viciously partisan culture draws.
    • The real war is not against the neighbor with the wrong yard sign. It is against the passions of the flesh – malice, envy, deceit and slander.
    • Suffering for being rude is not persecution. Peter means suffering for doing good and for being associated with Christ.
    • Following in Christ’s steps is not copying a long-dead example; it is walking with a present, exalted Lord who, when reviled, did not revile back.
    • Doing good to obtain God’s blessing is not mercenary. It is childlike trust that he means what he says.
    • If Christianity boils down to being a nice person, suffering will make you quit. If it is about Jesus, suffering has a purpose.

    ▶ 1:02:26

    The livestream was glitching – “I’ll just try to preach glitchy and it’ll cancel out” – and Matt began with a parenting story. When their kids are screaming or throwing things, he and Mandy remind each other, “They’re acting like children,” which makes them laugh and lets the tension drain. To their two-year-old: “Sweetie, you’re acting like a two-year-old.” And the endless pandemic questions – how hot is the sun, did Thomas Jefferson invent ice cream, is all ice cream Thomas Jefferson flavored? “Go play with your sister.”

    God is God, and you are not

    ▶ 1:05:35

    “Perspective helps a lot, even if the situation doesn’t change.” It is natural to dwell on what bothers us. But the big picture, the main idea Matt wanted to carry through the rest of 1 Peter, is simple: God is God, and you are not. “It’s actually quite a liberating thought.”

    ▶ 1:06:31

    In evangelism. Matt likes outreach, but not under the mindset that God needs our help – “this is a pyramid scheme,” the world is going to heck in a handbasket, and Christ will stand with arms folded because you did not save enough people. Some ancient religions, as in the Epic of Gilgamesh, held that humans were made to feed the gods. But the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob “is not served by human hands, as though he needed anything” (Acts 17:25). “We are not called into a forced-labor sweatshop. He offers us his very self.” The sheep do not carry the shepherd’s burden. “The idea that the body of Christ needs the efforts of men is the same idolatry of thinking that man feeds the gods, just dressed up differently.”

    ▶ 1:08:28

    In judgment. God is better and smarter than we are, and he will not “drop the ball.” He is awake, aware, competent, not running out of steam – not a God who did wonders long ago and has since fallen asleep, leaving us to carry the torch.

    ▶ 1:09:42

    In suffering. Last week, Matt said, he had “fumbled his way through” reminding the church that our hope is in God, not in circumstances changing. “I don’t know if you’ve noticed this about planet earth, but none of us gets out of this alive.” This week: the purpose in suffering. Peter is talking about suffering for what is good, for association with Christ – and often the very thing that gets us in trouble is proclaiming his excellencies. “It’s not up to me to make this situation right. The only thing I can do is walk in obedience… He will judge what’s right, he will wipe away every tear.”

    1. Who we are: exiles who belong to him

    ▶ 1:11:51

    “But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light… Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul. Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation.”

    1 Peter 2:9–12

    ▶ 1:13:00

    Peter reminds the people of “Bithynia, Cappadocia, Asia, Austin, wherever they are” who they are: a people from every tribe and culture whose defining mark is that he chose them and gave them mercy. Our culture has “a strong altar of self” – this is what I’m for, what I’m against, this is me – “an altar of ego that’s insanely pervasive.”

    ▶ 1:14:14

    So we are sojourners, passing through. Matt understood why the world is viciously partisan, with battle lines over politics, gender and ethnic identity. “We’re creative. We’ll fight about anything.” But this is not our forever home. “There is a God. We’re not him. We can trust him. He gave us our identity, so that identity matters more than all these other things we bicker about constantly.” That is why we can live honorably among unbelievers, even in suffering, playing to his values and his reward.

    ▶ 1:16:38

    And the real battle is not where we think. The passions of the flesh “wage war against your soul.” That is why Peter says put away malice (1 Peter 2:1). “Your battle isn’t against people – your neighbor with the wrong sign or whatever. Your battle is against envy and deceit, hypocrisy and slander.” There is a real war, but not against flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12).

    ▶ 1:17:16

    That is why we can honor all people, remembering humbly that without God’s grace we would be just as partisan and cutting. Live as free people, as servants of God: “Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor” (1 Peter 2:16–17). “It’s hard to say that in 2020, but we can honor everyone” – the mayor, the governor, the city council, “I know it’s going to be hard to honor all those at the same time, based on your disposition.” But our fear is reserved for God.

    2. Suffering for doing good

    ▶ 1:18:27

    “Servants, be subject to your masters with all respect, not only to the good and gentle but also to the unjust. For this is a gracious thing, when, mindful of God, one endures sorrows while suffering unjustly. For what credit is it if, when you sin and are beaten for it, you endure? But if when you do good and suffer for it you endure, this is a gracious thing in the sight of God.”

    1 Peter 2:18–20

    ▶ 1:19:10

    It is easy to be kind to people who are nice to you – “oh, I feel so spiritual.” Peter means the unjust too. And he does not mean burning every bridge, being rude and slanderous, then crying persecution when people dislike you. “We’re talking about suffering for being associated with Christ, not suffering for being extraordinarily rude.”

    ▶ 1:19:46

    Some think any suffering means they lacked faith. Peter says the opposite: “For to this you have been called.”

    “…because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps. He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth. When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten.”

    1 Peter 2:21–23

    ▶ 1:20:55

    Following his steps is not copying a good man who lived long ago. “Christianity is not copying his pattern. He’s real. He’s a present, exalted Lord,” and we walk with him as sheep with a shepherd. When he was reviled he did not revile back – unlike our first instinct: “Oh yeah? Well, you’re just a dirty, rotten, smelly goose. Or gander – which one’s the gander?” (The things you learn at church.)

    ▶ 1:22:09

    Servants and masters is Peter’s example, but it applies at the neighborhood association – “not always associated with glory and honor and praise, HOAs” – at the school board meeting, in class, at home between wives and husbands, children and parents. Mindful of God, we can suffer honorably and not repay evil for evil. Why would any of that matter? Peter has just quoted Isaiah: the grass withers and the flower fades, “but the word of our God will stand forever” (Isaiah 40:8). This affliction is momentary; the kingdom is coming in glory, and it will be an honor to have suffered representing it.

    3. Bless, to obtain a blessing

    ▶ 1:23:57

    “Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.”

    1 Peter 3:8–9

    ▶ 1:24:33

    Déjà vu – “to this you were called” again. And if acting honorably in order to receive God’s blessing bothers you, Matt said, it shouldn’t. A child told “do this chore and I’ll give you an extra piece of chocolate” does it because they trust you. “It’s not weird to be trying to store up treasure in heaven. It shows a childlike, direct trust. He said he’d repay; I actually believe him.” The body of Christ should respect that mentality.

    ▶ 1:25:08

    “Even if you should suffer for righteousness’ sake, you will be blessed. Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you” (1 Peter 3:13–15). We show respect to everyone, but we fear God. “I would rather hit back, but I’m reminded he’s in charge,” and showing honor is how I honor him as Lord in my heart.

    4. If it is only about being nice

    ▶ 1:26:14

    A side note, Matt warned, that might be distracting. If Christianity boils down to being a nice person, what perseverance will you have when suffering comes? Kindness is great, “but don’t make a secondary thing the primary thing.” Get flak for associating with Jesus, and you will reason that you can be nice anywhere – “I could be Mormon, or a nice atheist.” But when Paul names what is of first importance, every statement is about Jesus (1 Corinthians 15:3–4). “He’s our focus, which is actually helpful. It makes the suffering worth it to remember him.”

    ▶ 1:27:48

    Come to Christ expecting deliverance from all inconvenience, perfect health and an easy life, and you are like the man who builds half a tower without counting the cost, or the king who goes to war without counting his soldiers (Luke 14:28–31). Suffering comes, “and you think, this isn’t what I bought. I’d like a refund.” Christianity is not “a Precious Moments doll collection of just sweetness.” It is triumphant glorying in the risen Lord: Christ has died, Christ is risen, Christ will come again. “Whatever happens to me in this momentary life – I hope it’s not awful – I will still honor him, because he’s what it’s all about.” That gives purpose in suffering, though it might get us into more of it. Christ suffered “for the joy that was set before him” (Hebrews 12:2) and walked in glory because of it, not in spite of it.

    5. Armed with the same way of thinking

    ▶ 1:29:38

    So Peter says arm yourselves with Christ’s way of thinking (1 Peter 4:1–4). Sometimes the suffering is simply that people are surprised you will not join their flood of debauchery, or double down with envy, slander and malice, and they mock you for it. “It’s never ending.” The answer is the same: set your mind on Christ, honor him as Lord, remember he is coming to judge the living and the dead.

    ▶ 1:31:08

    “Therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers. Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace… in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.”

    1 Peter 4:7–11

    ▶ 1:31:47

    In the middle of all this, Matt said, guard your prayers, return to him daily, keep loving your brothers and sisters, show hospitality without grumbling, and use the gifts he gives – some to speak, some to serve – so that God is glorified, “because it’s his glory anyway.”

    We get the better end of the deal

    ▶ 1:33:11

    Christ suffered greatly – harassed, lied about, nearly pushed off a cliff – for the joy set before him, to bring people to the Father. He did not shy away but walked through it with purpose. “It’s almost an honor and a dignity to suffer alongside our Lord,” remembering that people said stupid things about him too.

    ▶ 1:34:24

    God did not make us to feed him, “like he was running out of gold and needed people to go mine the mountains.” What can you offer him? Yourself, in willing and joyful obedience. The weight of the world is not on your shoulders. “I think we get the better end of the deal, because we offer him us, but he offers us him. What a steal.” So even in suffering we can glory in him, brag about him, proclaim his excellencies, and walk in “the easy and light yoke that he gave me” (Matthew 11:30), trusting him to do what only he can do. Matt prayed for the Spirit to reveal God more, strengthen faith and give perseverance, and invited anyone who wanted prayer to come forward.